I dont care...

[Blazey]

Wiqued..your right Heidi is good ppl..i am forever glad i got to know her..you can count on her to kick your ass when you need it..or just sympathize when your heart is broken..but most of..you can count on her honest opinion..even if it hurts...she dont hold nothing back..that is why i love her so...you always know where you stand with her.. [img]graemlins/thumbs_up.gif[/img]


my comments on the internet are varied just now..and i kinda wanna keep em to myself..i need to work thru alot of my feelings..i wasnt ignoring anything that was said here tho...my heart and head heard every single nuance of every single word.. [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]

[Mystyx]

Here is another one of my famous sayings to people that are just getting to know me and it will apply to Heidi too....and probably many about these boards....

"You'll never have to guess where I'm coming from, because I'm gonna tell you"

[SmokinLizzies]

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Hmmmmmmm [img]biggrin.gif[/img]

THX JC!!

[demon chloe]

yeap..


i soo hear ya heidi

what the brain knows.....doesnt mean the heart follows right behind...


HEIdi???? Have I told ya how much you mean? and HOw glad I am that weve become friends...and wanna cyber?


*sniff

[heidi!]

awwwww...I luv You guys too... [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img]

When I made this thread I had just recently heard of another friend here...getting hurt...Angers me to see that here....but I knew the ones that know me well...Would understand what I meant and where i was comin from....

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[2CUTE]

This made me sad, cuz I've been there...and it's so true...
I dont care if you talked to him/her on the phone every single day for a year..I dont care if you think what you have is "different"

but not here...You can be the best at what you do...You could spin the biggest web...On the web......and get away with it..because nobody really knows anything about you..Only what you tell them and what they choose to believe..


Right after that, your posts made me laugh so hard I had tears in my eyes...and Cody was staring at me funny as I tried to explain...he just doesn't "get" my poolie friends bonds *shrugs*

I haven't been away from the net...I've been staying away from the pool and the boards. Alot of you already know...but for those of you who don't, I'm dating a FTM, and I had alot of "stuff" to figure out with me/him.

Heidi, as always, you're too honest, but exactly right...blah!!! I had admitting that *G*

[Mystyx]

If I may intrude and throw my cards on the table...Heidi I think you hit the nail on the head...we all do know the risks at hand...and I see you pissed cause you watch your friends get hurt over something that seemed so obvious to you what they could have avoided it and avoided the pain as well...unfortunately thats just it...we all have different natures about us and do things different, you seem tremendously strong and live with conviction..and perhaps some of your friends aren't and don't...that may never change and walking into a situation with blindfolds on may not stop either....the difference is your pissed cause you care and that should be said...remember to catch your friends when they fall and be there to comfort them, just not always point out when they have failed or do wrong...use your strength to your advantage and remember(I know you know this too just have to say it) not everyone else is as strong as you..but always love your friends for the strengths they do have...we all have them just not always in the same areas...thats what makes everyone special and unique

For those that fall for a person over the internet, just becareful... perception on the internet is all smoke and mirrors, until you know someone in real time..

[~lily~]

I had the chance to fall in love completely and totally via the net, then we moved it r/t. Those of you that have been around a while can remember that time. It was a wonderful time for me...but as with all in life, some wonderful things do end. Alot of the problems we had at the end of our relationship was caused by people on the net, who had their own agendas, lie and manipulate to have him believe stuff that wasn't true.
I'm upfront to a fault. I am who i am. He forgot that, i didn't.
I have since met some wonderful people, and some who chose to create an illusion. Take the good with the bad i suppose. But i have become more cautious and more skeptical as a result of it. Anonymity on the net is used both as an excuse and as a weapon.
I'm happy for those that find that special person via the internet, I for one, just can't do it anymore. I don't have the trust factor that i once did.
Cheers to those who can do it.

*checks out Heidi's monster*

[Blazey]

wendee... [img]graemlins/heart.gif[/img] ..we should talk sometime!..i missed ya..

Lily..i remember..what a waste i thought then...but i dont see it as such now..its better you learned it now..than later..god knows..trust is the foundation of every relationship.. [img]smile.gif[/img]

*happy sigh*..i love all you girls..i am glad to have found each of you.. [img]smile.gif[/img]

dave..your not a gal..but i love ya too..*L

[Father Dave]

okey...2Cute is dating...*crosses off list*...


damn.... [img]redface.gif[/img]